One also has to compete with the fact that you only have seconds before anyone can swipe left. You not only have to make a mark with a few photos but also appear distinct and stand out amongst all the profiles. Especially when others are likely to be using the same template for dating profile pictures. Dating apps are full of stereotypical profiles that look more like mood boards instead of real-life moments....

There’s no casting off the long shadows of what such queerphobic* ‘diagnoses’ and prevalent socio-cultural and medical stigmas have done to the perception, rights, and everyday safety of my community. These numbers are one of the primary reasons I, along with many from the LGBTQIA+ community, firmly believe that queerphobia is coming from inside the house. We Don’t Struggle Because We’re Queer, We Struggle Because of Queerphobia We’re ALL products of a system that enables and nurtures queerphobia....

By putting in the effort and sticking it out, you earn yourself a partner who’s got your back till the end of time. That’s something worth fighting for. But the question is: how do you make a relationship work? What are the dos and don’ts of navigating the many twists and turns of a relationship? Is there a set of rules to play by? We’re here to help all you relationship newbies out figure out the answers to these questions with insights from psychologist Priyal Agarwal, who is the Founder of StandWeSpeak, a sex education initiative, and works for promoting awareness about sex, relationships, personal well-being, and mental health....

There seems to be a consensus, of course, about getting into bed with someone other than one’s partner. Most people would agree that this is cheating, unless you’re in an open or polyamorous relationship. But in the case of an emotional affair, the lines are not well-demarcated. Rather, they are so hazy that you may be crossing the line without realizing there is a possibility of you soon getting entrenched in an emotional affair....

You fall in love and build a strong connection with someoneYour whirlwind romance fades and reaches an inevitable end There are many terms for when you connect with someone on a deeper level. Some call it twin flames, karmic connection, or a telepathic connection, and some refer to that person as their soulmate. What Does It Mean To Connect With Someone Connecting with someone isn’t just about meeting them and talking to them about politics, sports, or about the mundane details of life....

Every single moment, the memory of a place, a date, a sweet gesture leads you to shed pools of tears and your breath seems to be stuck in your gut every other night. Unfortunately (or fortunately!) life does not stop for anyone. As much as you think you won’t get over it, you ultimately do learn to move on from the past. However, the question is – can you completely forget what happened, accept the scars and march ahead?...

We’ve all day-dreamed of getting proposed to by our man in the most romantic and special ways. But while we long for this blessed occasion, we are often caught off-guard. Now that your dating gurus are here, that’s not going to happen anymore! Join us on our trail and keep your hawk eyes wide open to identify signs of a proposal coming your way as we escort you on your journey toward love....

So many readers write to Bonobology asking for a mini-guide to the beautiful aspects of a romantic relationship. Everyone loves a perspective that focuses on the positive. Well, here we have it. You can look at these qualities as enhancers of love. Does your relationship check these boxes? If not, don’t worry. We’re also going to tell you how you can cultivate them. By we, I mean myself and the expert onboard today – counselor Manjari Saboo (Masters in Applied Psychology and Post-Graduate Diploma in Family Therapy and Child Care Counseling), founder of Maitree Counselling, an initiative dedicated to the emotional well-being of families and children....

You feel relentless to know why this is happening. Many things are going through your head. Is he not responding to your texts? Did he leave mid-conversation again? We keep assigning various interpretations to different texting behavior. If somebody is a fast responder, then he is interested in you, and vice-versa. Let’s give this a few shades instead of splitting it all into black and white! What does it mean when he texts you but doesn’t continue the conversation?...

While it is normal to go through the stages of break up like grief and denial, it is not too wise to let the pain linger too long. Breakups can be brutal if you fail to move on and keep lingering in the past. This will be unhealthy for you in the long run because you will be unable to accept true love as and when it comes your way....

This chaotic arena comes with its own rules (read: modern rules of dating, unspoken rules of dating, rules of dating texting) and endless expectations. Navigating the dating landscape these days is confusing at its best, and deeply disappointing at its worst. That’s why the unwritten rules of dating become a necessity that should be diligently followed. To help you get a fresh perspective, we have an expert on board – counseling psychologist Kavita Panyam (Master’s in Psychology and international affiliate with the American Psychological Association), who has been helping couples work through their relationship issues for over two decades....

You and your guy are in a stable relationship. Things are getting serious, and you are so in love that the thought of losing him in any way makes you feel sick. Yet you wonder if he feels the same way towards you. Are you curious about how he feels for you? Are you scared that you might be the only one in your relationship who’s in love? Figuring out if a man is in love is hard for many women....

You could be feeling lazy, or the pandemic may have left you no choice when all the good restaurants close before you even get off work! Plus, who even has the energy to try and find a decent restaurant after a tiring day of working from home? At-home date ideas can give you all the excitement you need, and more. Remember, the bedroom is just a few feet away wink....

There comes a phase in your life when you realize that you are wasting your time dating immature, self-obsessed Casanovas. In your quest to find the tall, dark, handsome, and overtly romantic gentleman, you may be overlooking the perfect soulmate that is standing right next to you. Don’t feel ignored if he is quiet, that’s just how he is. These shy, soft, sensitive guys can be everything you want in a relationship....

However, when it starts it usually becomes a pattern within a relationship causing harm to one or both partners involved. It can be noted through body language, like rolling eyes, not holding hands (or lack of physical touch in general), facial expressions that indicate resentment and/or contempt, etc. Sometimes it’s done subconsciously and sometimes it’s done purposefully to cause harm and have control over the other partner. What is a toxic relationship?...

We bring your quotes from greats such as Helen Keller and Martin Luther King, Jr. to help lift you up. There is always a light at the end of the tunnel and these hope quotes are here to help you remember that in your darkest hours.

Just because you are going to be married now, doesn’t mean you don’t have to make an effort anymore. Pleasing your wife is just as important as pleasing your girlfriend. Let your bride know how much you love her and how special she is by surprising her with handpicked gifts that express your feelings. We have a list of 25 unique wedding day gifts for the bride from the groom to help you add the perfect cherry on top of a perfect day....

Your attendance at your job is essential for productivity. You’re an asset to your company. Still, you will need a sick day, a vacation day, or even the odd afternoon off from time to time. The reasons vary. It can be because you’re supervising your home remodeling project, or you may need time to prepare for an important event. According to Tight Fist Finance, “your explanation doesn’t have to include personal details....

A picture may be worth a thousand words, but just a few words can tell you a million things about your marriage. In some cases, even a single cruel comment can ravage the integrity of a healthy relationship. Words hurt. There’s no doubt about that. And while actions speak louder than words, that doesn’t invalidate the pain you may feel after your husband says something awful. Here is the worst thing a husband can say to his wife (along with several other hurtful things he might say)....

Strong-willed Shweta said that there is no reason why women have to end up staying in an unhappy relationship, just because it is their second marriage. She said, “People are pointing at me and saying, ‘Oh! It didn’t work out the second time also?’ I would ask them, ‘Why? Problems can’t happen a second time?” This brings us to why everyone can’t be as bold and sorted as Shweta when it comes to leaving a toxic marriage....