Want to learn a few funny things to say to a narcissist? Narcissists are self-absorbed, abrasive people. They can be a pain to deal with and even worse to live with, and it’s tempting to clap back at them after one of their tirades. What’s worse, though, are the long-term effects of exposure to a narcissist. Hurtful and manipulative, they can easily reduce innocent and unsuspecting victims into emotional shells....

Even so, you should, if possible, date a complete opposite. They’ll open you up like no one else, and help you delve deeper into yourself, make you realize things about yourself you’d be oblivious to before. Not convinced? Let’s take a look at why we think dating someone who wants to do acro yoga while you want to read a book at home is going to be good for you....

A recent survey conducted on over 90,000 men and women revealed that 78.6% of men and 91.6% of women admitted to having an emotional affair. However, the percentage of emotional affairs that turn physical is not as high as you would imagine it to be. Having said that, the possibility of emotional infidelity turning into a physical one cannot be overruled. The trouble is, since there’s no real evidence of infidelity when it comes to emotional bonds, you might end up telling yourself that you’re imagining things....

But Helen was the anti-heroine or ‘vamp’ of the ’50s and ’60s who wore lovely Western clothes, drank alcohol, danced and had the unspeakable – premarital sex. So, while the heroine suffered throughout the movie, Helen had fun on screen. But off-screen her life was anything but fun. She has struggled at each step of her life to survive. There is so much we don’t know about the gorgeous and magnificent Helen of Bollywood....

Psychologist Nandita Rambhia (MSc, Psychology), who specializes in CBT, REBT, and couples counseling, helped us analyze the friend-with-benefits dynamic. She says, “When you are friends with benefits, it means that you get into a sexual relationship, but you don’t get romantically attached or you don’t have future plans as a couple together.” 13 Friends With Benefits Boundaries That Must Be Followed You might think that it’s easier to have sex in the night and then pretend nothing happened the next morning....

Whatever the reason, we are nobody to judge yet sexist terms like “sugar mama” and “cougar” are casually thrown around. A more couth term for such relationships is “May-December Romance”. The judgment notwithstanding, these relationships are becoming commonplace. According to a survey, 34% of women over the age of 40 were dating younger men. However, it is also true that they continue to face societal contempt when age shouldn’t be a problem because no one other than the two people in a relationship really knows what works for them....

Every once in a while you’ll see a story on the news – a domestic abuse situation where the victim was assaulted but immediately returned to their abuser. When it happens, we ask why this person would ever go back to such a toxic situation. We judge them and wonder how they could have so little common sense. We make these sanctimonious pronouncements because most of us have never been in a relationship with a narcissist and we don’t comprehend their ability to persuade their victims....

Vacations of this kind are great places to pick up tricks and tips for understanding and discussing the chasing game with your girls. Women want men to chase them over phone calls, texts and even during conversations. They will do everything to make sure the guy does not lose interest. Even going to the length of ignoring him and playing hard to get. This is because they love the thrill of it, and if a woman can make a man chase her forever, it’s like the ultimate satisfaction....

But even the best of relationships fray and lag, and could sometimes use a little help. Even if there’s nothing wrong as such, there’s always room to make your relationship stronger. And what better way to figure out new ways to make your most intimate connections better than with advice tucked away in the pages of some of the best relationship books! And, being the relationship nerds that we are, we at Bonobology went deep into our bibliophile book stacks to bring you some of the best relationship books to read....

Best Harry Potter Gift Ideas That Any Fan Will Love If the person loves winter we suggest you consider the scarf, sweatshirt and throw blanket; if they are quirky and adventurous, gift them the hip flask or Dobby socks. Bookmark the earrings or makeup brushes if they are girly, gift them the cookbook if they are a budding chef, and consider some wall art with an inspirational quote if they are going through a tough time....

In the absence of it, even the strongest connection can come undone sooner or later. So does that mean when respect is lost in a relationship there is no hope for the future? Well, not necessarily. If you and your partner can recognize this worrying tendency for what it is and take measures to rein it in, it is possible to turn things around. For that, you need to recognize that you’re dealing with disrespect in a relationship....

Wait a minute, just because these gifts aren’t expensive, don’t assume they look worn down. These gifts are affordable yet sophisticated and will stick to your budget. Whether she is moving out of the city, or getting married, listed below are some inexpensive gifts for women no matter what the occasion is. Best Inexpensive Gifts For Women Under $50 We have done the hard work for you and curated a list of small thoughtful gifts for her....

Compliments act as positive reinforcement, build trust between partners and make your relationship so much stronger. A recent study at the National Institute for Physiological Sciences in Japan unveiled an interesting link. To our brain, receiving a compliment (a social reward) is the same as receiving money. The same brain areas are activated in both cases, and the receiver of the reward performs better! So, if you’re looking for really cute things to say to your girlfriend every day or on special occasions, Bonobology’s list of 50 one-liners can help....

Flirty Conversation Starters To Break The Ice There comes a point when after months of pining, you finally get the number of your crush. This is the stage where you need to pierce through the wall of ice and awkwardness using the flaming passion of your words. Selecting the right convo starters with a crush is akin to walking on a tightrope – you have to balance flirty talk without going overboard and sounding like a creep....

The celebratory mood, the warmth, the gratitude. Think Christmas and Thanksgiving. And also warm quilts, hot chocolate, toasted marshmallows, and bonfires. It’s all of these things about the winter season that can bring you and your partner closer together. How, you ask? By serving as inspiration for some heart-melting date ideas for winter. 51 Cozy Winter Date Ideas To Try This Year Whether you’re the kind who wants to spend all your leisurely time indoors, snuggled up in your warm bed with your SO by your side, or someone who wants to feel every fresh snowflake melt on your face, there is no dearth of winter date ideas that can keep the flame of love fired up, come hail or sunshine....

In a world of fast dating and casual sex, the value of deeper connections is getting lost. The reason we look for meaningful relationships is to feel a sense of belonging. To connect at a level where we can unfurl who we are. The desire to belong is still at the core, but we’re drifting away from what centers us. Types Of Intimacy Couples are finding it hard to find the courage and safety to let each other in....

Guys being too good was not charming enough, was it? Why are all his intentions transparent? Where is the excitement? Being a good man was not good enough for us. What brought out excitement was the bad boy who behaved like a jerk for five days a week. Dating a bad boy has been appealing – he had a smooth tongue with sexy hair, swept you off your feet until you felt your heartbeat in your mouth....

Do you remember the last time you said “I love you” sincerely and not as a passing phrase? The consistent labor that goes into relationships, the whole spectrum of feelings – good, neutral and bad – that you navigate for one person, the storms you weather, and the deep comfort that you find in each other: all of this is a huge investment of time, love and energy. But too much comfort has its cons, as we will soon find out....

Slowly, you are starting to believe, “I am in a relationship but not happy with myself.” But the moment you think about ending this relationship, you start missing them more than ever. Memories from the good old days come rushing back. While envisaging a life without them, you see a blank, dark space in front of your eyes. Well, aren’t you in a pickle? What do you do when you love someone but don’t want to be with them?...

In 1975, I got through the tenth standard board exams with flying colours. What else could you be in those days except good at studies or sport? I was also a terrific sprinter and my coach wanted me to train for state-level running. (As told to Anney Sam) I Lost My Virginity To A Married Man Is it stupid to give your virginity to a married man? yes it was and by imagination didn’t help matters either....