You can find its meaning just by reflecting on his interaction with you. To be more specific, its meaning depends on the reason you broke up and on his attachment style. When an ex tells you to move on they might be pretending to be over you. Now, they want you back so they decide that they will use reverse psychology. You’ll notice that their actions won’t match their words....

Many individuals experience divorce in different ways. Some choose to communicate due to mutual duties whereas others choose to go No Contact so they can cope with the pain and maybe turn the tables around. The aim of No Contact during or after divorce is not to push you to make any more mistakes or to lack communication. One main thing that you can achieve while using No Contact is to go through this hard period and reflect on your relationship....

Don’t expect it to be plain-sailing just because a relationship comes with a ‘no label’ label. The ‘no obligations, no attachment’ clause may make it sound like you’ve hit the relationship gold mine. However, a no-labels relationship can turn super complicated due to the lack of clarity. Expecting partner benefits without commitment might not agree with everyone’s dating style. And it boils down to one question – do relationships without labels actually work?...

They might just be more introverted than you. We all have varying degrees of general introversion or extroversion in our personalities. We might end up judging the other one as ‘reticent’ and ‘non-communicative,’ if they are slightly higher on the introversion scale than us.In India, kam bolna (frugal speech) is considered more masculine and macho and hence a more desirable trait in men. So culturally it would seem, we do not find expressive men who talk about their emotions very appealing....

The conversation around seeing someone vs dating becomes all the more confusing since the two terms are thrown around interchangeably. These words are heavily overused, and it almost sounds like a lot of people are unaware of the actual difference between the meaning of these two words. Coupled with other terms like double texting or cuffing, it seems like we’re learning something new every day. What does “seeing someone” mean?...

The traditional wedding has a lopsided expense sheet where either the groom’s side or the bride’s side is seen bleeding money. How much should the brides parents pay for the wedding? What do the groom’s parents pay for the wedding? These are questions that people find very difficult to answer because the wedding cost is a very touchy topic of discussion. It is important we reassess our traditions and make necessary modifications to fit our claims of progressive thinking....

While most folks go tizzy headed about star signs or the zodiac, not much is known about what they may be like in bed, and under the covers. It is not so easy to predict who might be kind, giving and generous in love and sex, but there seems to be agreement about compatibility with each zodiac. We are discussing which are the most selfish of the 12-star signs, and while some behaviours can be learned, there are just those who cannot help but be selfish and insensitive....

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. One-sided love is an unnecessary joke of fate that is extremely unfortunate in its very existence. However, there’s something beautiful about it too. The painful process, the humiliation, the whole senselessness that unrequited love comes with is a reminder of how human we are and how much control love and emotions have over us. This reminder has inspired countless works of art and has inspired many a movie....

If you have never suffered from anxiety you are lucky and I envy you. An accepted definition of anxiety involves elements of uncontrolled fear of events or event which simultaneously overwhelms and causes a person to freeze or assume frenetic activity to prevent the feared consequences from happening. For example, a person with social phobia would normally exhibit elements of anxiety when asked to meet new people or enter a room full of people whom they know they were expected to talk to....

Did you see what went wrong here? Joyce lacked social etiquette that caused her losing a great potential partner that Jacob could have been. But she didn’t know what’s wrong and when the pattern repeats, she wonders, “Am I undateable?” Have you also been losing at dates? Are you continuously failing to capture the attention of potential partners around you? If your answer to these questions is yes, then it is high time you evaluate the social habits which are making you undateable....

Well, the definition of “wealthy” can be relative. For sake of uniformity, if your assets, resources, or bank balance far exceeds the amount you need to lead a comfortable life, I pronounce you as “wealthy”. But can we really make a list of zodiac signs most likely to be wealthy? To be honest, the traits that these zodiac signs inherit could provide an impetus here. Let’s take a guess. What could Kim Kardashian and Alice Walton have in common?...

Sex during winters The cold, chilly and unruly winter winds nudge and tease you. It is during this season that you yearn to be loved and caressed and to indulge in winter sex. The excitement to find warmth in each other’s embrace and to enjoy a hot lovemaking session is the charm this cold season brings with it. Many do argue that having sex during winters is a task. The idea of undressing, getting intimate and the climax does sound like an arduous task....

You might have heard the term “vanilla personality” being thrown around. No, it doesn’t mean they taste like vanilla (although that’d be great). The exact characteristics of a vanilla personality are perceived differently by different people. While someone might fancy a vanilla personality, others will scoff at the very mention of one. So, what does it mean when a man is vanilla? Or when a woman is vanilla? Is it true that guys are attracted to vanilla personalities?...

One of the most powerful natural abilities that women possess is intuition, they just know things! So if a man you’re talking to is into you, you’ll know, because you’ll sense it. But why can’t he make life easier for the both of you and just tell you how he feels? Well, there are several reasons for this, and one of the most prevalent is that men are just not good at expressing their emotions....

Should you confront a narcissist? What happens if you do confront him or her? Does the proverbial kitten really turn into a lion? Answers to those questions depend on the circumstances and the people involved. Before you decide to confront someone with a personality disorder, you need to ask yourself,”What is the outcome I am hoping for?” Why Would You Confront a Narcissist? If you have just discovered that your partner or parent is a narcissist, you may have a strong urge to confront them with that information in the hopes that they will recognize themselves in what you describe and be remorseful for the pain they have caused....

I had an affair with a married man when I was 17 My first sexual experience was at 17 and let me declare that no one coerced me; it was a very deliberate decision on my part. At 17 I was quite mature and could hold a conversation with a 37-year-old teacher with impunity. And so, when it did happen – it was a gradual seduction of the mind that ended in bed with this gorgeous married man....

Trust is an indispensable element of any healthy relationship. Think of the best couple you know, the one that’s your couple goals. What are a few characteristics of their dynamic? Can you spot the unshakeable faith they have in each other? It is quite inspiring to see them together, isn’t it? Chances are, they’ve also put in a lot of work to arrive at this space in their relationship. Don’t worry, you’ll get there too after some troubleshooting....

What Your Birth Month Says About Your Sex Life Wondering sex addicts are born in which month? There’s an answer for that too. (Psst…a sex addict can be born in any month.) But first, find out what your birth months says about you sexually. Are you the kinky kinds, or like to take it slow or you always want to dominate in bed? Believe it or not, people born in some months crave for more tantalising sex than others....

Does it only happen in the movies or is it really that easy to find someone who will be forever in love with you? Let’s view the reality of a lasting love somewhat pragmatically. Does Love Last Forever? Romantic love is notoriously precarious – obsessive, erratic, consuming, fleeting, exhilarating, depressing. In most cases, it is not the kind of love that lasts forever. Once requited, it can slip easily into boredom....

At that moment we tend to romanticize the idea of our ex rather than reflect on them. Hence, can we say that getting back with an ex never works? That’s not true. It depends on the reason that you broke up. If it was fixable then that’s not a disadvantage. Every relationship and situation is different. It all depends on both of your personalities and how the breakup happened. The main thing is to not let yourself go through the same situation or repeat the same mistakes....